The Importance of Having Godly Friends

What makes a good friend? This is an important question. Many people seek good friends and try to be a good friend. But as believers, I think it’s necessary to ask what makes a godly friend. Scripture makes it clear that friends play an influential role in people’s lives!

What are Friends?

According to Noah Webster, a friend is the following.

FRIEND, noun frend.

1. One who is attached to another by affection; one who entertains for another sentiments of esteem, respect and affection, which lead him to desire his company, and to seek to promote his happiness and prosperity; opposed to foe or enemy.

From this definition, we can see that a friend is someone who genuinely cares for another person. As a result, they treat those people with respect and try to promote their well-being and happiness.

The Importance of Choosing Friends Wisely

Scripture provides us with many warnings about choosing poor companions. For instance, we’re told that if we’re friends with a someone who has anger issues, we may become like him (Prov. 22:24-25). Similarly, we’re warned against keeping company with fools (Prov. 13:20) and people who are divisive (Prov. 17:9). And it’s equally important for each of us to be godly friends as well!

Qualities of Godly Friends

Demonstrate Selflessness

Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.

John 15:13 (NKJV)

Encourage You to Grow

As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV)

Provide Help and Accountability

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NKJV)

Love at all Times

A friend loves at all times…

Proverbs 17:17 (NKJV)

Do Not Corrupt Your Character

Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.”
1 Corinthians 15:33 (NKJV)

Do Not Encourage Worldliness

Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
James 4:4 (NKJV)

Are Supportive and Forgiving

Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.
Colossians 3:13 (NKJV)

Set a Godly Example

Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
1 Timothy 4:12 (NKJV)


As Christians, we’re called to be godly friends. And we’re called to choose friends wisely. Oftentimes, the people we hang out with greatly influence our character, even if we don’t realize it. In closing, I’d like to encourage you to consider what kind of friends you surround yourself with. And, think about what kind of a friend you are!

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